The Day After....

There is truly nothing like the favor of God. Here we are....9 months away from this blessed event and God's hands have been ALL over it from the start. I don't know that there is a more carefree and happier bride than I am. Yes, I am organized, a anal retentive planner, but I serve a God of order. LOL So, with that I operate that ALL things, including this wedding are to be decent and IN ORDER.

Why then are so many women planning their unions pulling their hair out??? Well, to me it is quite simple. They have forgotten about the day after...they have forgotten that after the flowers, aisle runners, and folk kissing on you and getting their makeup on your gown, that it will be the two of you. JUST ME AND JOE is what my focus is.

Don't get me wrong I expect a wonderful celebration and ALL the grinning and love I can stand, but more importantly I look forward to the next level of ministry as man and wife.

So tell me brides....how long did it take you to realize that all that mattered was "the day after".

Planning with no thought on tomorrow.....

Present your family and friends with their eulogies now - they won't be able to hear how much you love them and appreciate them from inside the coffin. ~Anonymous


So here it is February 1, 2010, and so much has happened since January 1, 2010. I never thought my guest list could change in the manner it has. Lost relationships, marriages, and even some deaths have altered the list. We are taking such care and concern to be surrounded by those who support and will continue to pray for OUR marriage with us; yet keeping in mind that God has predestined us all.

The word of God instructs us to take no thought for tomorrow, for it will surely take care of itself.

I love you all.....